The Meaning of BDSM has Changed so Much these past couple of Years ... It Used to mean : Bondage Discipline Sadism + Masochism ...
Nowadays it seems as if Women have gone and redefined its meaning. Now it more Accurately means : Bring Dollars to Serve Me.
When ever 1 sees an Add Posted by a Female Domme, They Always Expect Payment. Why is That ?
When Ur Toilet doesnt Wanna Flush + U call a Plumber - After He has Driven to Ur Home + Provided U with a Service, Does He Pay U ? Or Do U have to Pay Him ? If Men r Serving U Ladies, Shouldn't U b Paying Us ?
Even When a Female Posts an Add, desiring to b the Submissive, They STILL Expect to be Payed Allowances + to be taken Care of Financially etc ...
Ull Never see a Male Domme requiring any Compensation. Where is the Disconnect that Changes the Dynamic SOOOOO MUCH, when it changes from Females to Males ??
Basically, If a Man is in ANY kind of Contact with a Woman, He HAS to Pay Her, Whether Shes the Dominant or the Submissive What Happened to Equality, Ladies ?
I Get that a LOT of WOMEN walk around with this Crazy Idea that as Men, We should just be So Thrilled that Ur taking time out of Ur Busy Day for Us + b Grateful that Ur Blessing Us with Ur Presence ... Even when Ur just Using Us or treating Us like Crap ... that We Men should just b Spending Lavishly on U Ladies as a way of saying Thank U, for Descending from Ur Cloud + Gracing Men with Ur "Holy"Presence ... Because ur supposedly "So Much Fun" to be Around ...
Even IF the Above wasnt Absolute CLOWN-World LOGIC, Things still arent quite Adding up correctly. The Math aint Math'in ... Because the Majority of Female Dommes (by their Very Definition) are NOT FUN to b around. So the Above Doesnt Apply ...
Men NEED to Wake Up to this Ridiculous Imbalance. Stop Paying Some1 to treat U like Crap.
Theres already Enough Shitty People in the World, who will do that for Free ...
Ur Providing Her with a Service, She Should b Paying U !!
As men, We should also just start redefining things. From this Day Forward, Im a BankSub ! (its doesnt quite roll off the toung like FemDom) but Fuck-it ... Why Not ?!? What is a BankSub ? Well ... Its just like what it sounds like : a Sub who wants to Make Bank if Im going to Submit, I wanna b Payed ...
Also : a Mistress or Master without a Slave Serving them, is just another Normal Girl or Guy ... Without some1 to Call them Mistress or Master, their just normal People ... If U want the Priveledge of being Called Mistress or Master, its gonna Cost U. Im a BankSub. Whats a BankSub ? - I hear U ask - Its a Sub who want to get payed, if they r going to Submit to some1 + Obey them, a BankSub wants money + Gifts and ONLY then theyll allow themselves to be miss-treated, hurt + insulted. HOORAAY EQUALITY !!